I must however hasten to recognize that the PH as the father plays a vital and unique role in shaping the Child as much as the mother. The presence of the father in the Child’s life cannot be understated. In Elaine Lee Ming Li v Ng Yew Ming [2022] MLJU 2379) the Learned Judge explained the role of a father as follows: [20] It was crucial to bear in mind the role that a father has in ensuring that the child is raised in a nourishing environment. This was highlighted in the Singapore case of APE v. APF [2015] SGHC 17, where reference was made by Tan Siong Thye J to the article Contact and Domestic Violence - The Experts' Court Report [2000] Fam Law 615 by Claire, Sturge and Danya Glaser, which provided an analysis of the role of the father to his child: The findings are that the position in law that parental involvement on both sides is indeed in the best interests of the child. In a paper commissioned by the Official Solicitor, Claire, Sturge and Danya Glaser," Contact and Domestic Violence - The Experts' Court Report" [2000] Fam Law 615 ("The Experts' Court Report") at pp 616-617, the authors comment that: Contact with fathers, as opposed to other family members or people with whom the child has a significant relationship, brings the following, in particular, to bear, although the general principles remain the same: • the father's unique role in the creation of the child; • the sharing of 50% of his or her genetic material; • the history of his or her conception and the parental relationship; • the consequent importance of the father in the child's sense of identity and value; • the role modelling a father can provide of the father's and male contribution to parenting and the rearing of children which will have relevance to the child's concepts of parental role models and his or her own choices about choosing partners and the sort of family life he or she aims to create.” Conclusion 60. In the circumstances it is my finding that the PW has discharged her burden of proof on a balance of probabilities that there is a material change in the circumstances which makes it necessary for this Court to vary the earlier consent order. In doing so I have endeavoured to strike a fair and reasonable balance in coming to my decision to ensure that the Child’s welfare and best interests takes precedence over and above personal preferences of either parents.