(C) Respondent’s Conduct and Evidence [26] A substantial portion of the respondent’s affidavits consists of bare denials without adequate particulars, particularly in response to serious and specific allegations raised by the 305 applicant. The court notes that several material matters were not satisfactorily addressed. In particular, the respondent failed to provide a satisfactory explanation for matters referred to in the paragraphs above such as the prolonged denial of the Applicant’s access to the child, despite repeated requests by 310 S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg the applicant. The respondent also failed to substantiate the allegations of abuse relied upon to justify such denial of access. Further, to above the respondent did not adequately explain her living arrangements and association with another man before her divorce. Also, the circumstances under which 315 the child was introduced to him. While maintaining that she was the child’s indispensable primary caregiver, the evidence also showed that the child was frequently under the care of the maternal grandparents, a matter which was likewise not satisfactorily addressed. 320 [27] These are not peripheral matters but issues that go directly to questions of custody, care and control, access, and the child’s overall welfare. In Ng Hee Thoong & Anor v Public Bank Bhd; [1995] 1 MLJ 281; [2000] 1 CLJ 503; [1995] 1 AMR 622, the court recognised that where material allegations are not 325 properly answered, the court may take that failure into account in assessing the evidence. While the court does not accept every allegation merely because it is inadequately denied, the respondent’s failure to meaningfully engage with these material issues inevitably diminishes the weight to be attached to her 330 evidence. [28] That said, the court reiterates that personal beliefs, religious practices, or aspects of a parent’s lifestyle are not, in themselves, determinative of custody. The court is not concerned with moral judgment. As observed in Tang Heng 335 Kit (supra), the private conduct of a parent does not warrant S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg censure unless it intrudes into the child’s environment and has a direct bearing on the child’s welfare. However, where such matters raise legitimate concerns as to the child’s stability, supervision, or emotional environment, the court is entitled and 340 indeed obliged to scrutinise them in the context of the child’s best interests. [29] In the present case, the respondent has failed to provide a satisfactory explanation regarding her living arrangements and her association with a third party. Evidence of photographs 345 placed before the court points to cohabitation and conduct indicative of a romantic relationship prior to any formal dissolution of the marriage. These are not viewed from a moral standpoint, but rather from the perspective of the child’s welfare. In the absence of a proper explanation, such 350 circumstances raise legitimate concerns as to the stability and consistency of the environment in which the child is being raised. [30] Further, the evidence suggests that the child is frequently under the care of the respondent’s parents, while the 355 respondent travels between Ipoh and Penang for work. While there is nothing inherently improper in grandparents assisting in caregiving, it nonetheless weakens the Respondent’s assertion that she alone is the indispensable primary caregiver. As observed in Melissa Marie Albert (supra): 360 “Even if the paternal grandmother and a maid… were to take care of the child, we do not think that such care can S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg substitute for the mother’s own consistent care of the child at home.” 365 [31] Therefore, care provided by the respondent’s parents, even if well-meaning, does not necessarily substitute for the respondent’s own consistent care as a parent. [32] The respondent’s repeated conduct in making serious allegations, including sexual abuse against the applicant in 370 relation to the child, raises grave concern as to her judgment and its impact on the child’s upbringing. Such allegations, made without substantiation, reflect respondent’s conduct that is not conducive to the child’s welfare. The surrounding circumstances suggest that these allegations were advanced 375 to justify the denial of the applicant’s access. If this is left unchecked, such conduct would undermine the child’s right to maintain a meaningful relationship with both parents and is plainly contrary to the child’s welfare. The court cannot permit one parent to exclude the other based on unproven allegations. 380 In these circumstances, judicial intervention is necessary to restore balance and to safeguard the child’s long-term welfare and stability. [33] Taken together, these factors are relevant in assessing the overall stability, continuity, and welfare of the child. 385 S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg REBUTTAL OF TENDER YEARS PRESUMPTION [34] Taking the totality of the evidence, this court is satisfied that the statutory presumption in favour of the mother for a child of 390 tender years under section 88(3) of the Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976 has been rebutted. While the presumption operates as a starting point, it is well established that it may be displaced by strong and cogent evidence demonstrating that the welfare of the child would be 395 better served by an alternative arrangement, as affirmed in Melissa Marie Albert (supra). The court must therefore look beyond the presumption and undertake a holistic evaluation of all relevant circumstances. [35] In the present case, several factors cumulatively justify the 400 displacement of the presumption. a) First, the prolonged and unjustified denial of access to the father is a significant consideration. A child’s welfare ordinarily lies in maintaining a meaningful relationship with both parents, and the unilateral exclusion of one 405 parent undermines that fundamental interest. b) Second, the allegations of harm relied upon by the respondent are unsupported by any objective evidence. As emphasised in Melissa Marie Albert (supra), uncorroborated allegations of abuse, particularly in the 410 absence of police or medical confirmation, cannot be relied upon to determine custody. In this respect, a S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg criminal charge has been preferred against the respondent for making a false report against the applicant. 415 c) Third, the respondent’s conduct in assuming a gatekeeping role and excluding the applicant from the child’s life is inconsistent with the principle of equal parental responsibility under section 5 of the Guardianship of Infants Act 1961. Such conduct, if left 420 unchecked, risks impairing the child’s emotional development and relationship with the other parent. d) Fourth, the applicant has demonstrated both the willingness and the capacity to care for the child, which is a relevant consideration in assessing the child’s best 425 interests. [36] In this regard, the court is guided by the principle in Mahabir Prasad, (supra), that the welfare of the child encompasses not only physical care but also long-term emotional stability and 430 happiness. A parent who, without justification, excludes the other parent from the child’s life acts contrary to that welfare. The court cannot sanction or perpetuate such conduct under the guise of the tender years presumption. WELFARE AND BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILD 435 [37] The welfare and best interests of the child remain the paramount consideration of this court under section 88 of the S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976. The child in the present case is of tender age and is at a formative stage of development, where stability, continuity of care, and the 440 preservation of meaningful relationships with both parents are critical. As recognised in Mahabir Prasad (supra), the welfare of a child extends beyond physical needs and encompasses emotional security, long-term happiness, and a balanced upbringing. 445 [38] In assessing the present circumstances, the court finds that the existing arrangement, characterised by prolonged denial of access, ongoing parental conflict, and instability in contact, is not conducive to the child’s welfare. A child should not be placed in a situation where one parent is effectively excluded 450 from his life, as this may adversely affect his emotional development and sense of security. The court is also guided by the principle in Sia Lee Fei v Soh Kok Kong [2010] 8 CLJ 492; [2010] 1 MLRH 546, that a stable and consistent environment is fundamental to a child’s upbringing, and any 455 arrangement must promote such stability. Yeoh Wee Siam JC (as she then was) states: “However, the paramount consideration was the three children’s welfare and, for their good, it would be undesirable to disturb their life by changes of custody. The 460 lives of the three children with the respondent seemed to be very stable, which was conducive to their upbringing” S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg [39] In the circumstances, granting custody, care and control to the applicant, with structured and meaningful access to the 465 respondent, would best restore balance in the child’s life. Such an arrangement ensures that the child is not monopolised by either parent and is afforded the opportunity to maintain a continuing relationship with both parents. This, in the court’s judgment, is for an arrangement most consistent with the 470 child’s welfare, emotional well-being, and long-term best interests. [40] Having considered the totality of the evidence and guided by the paramount consideration of the welfare and best interests of the child, this court finds that the applicant has been 475 unjustifiably excluded from the child’s life for a prolonged period without a proper basis. The evidence further shows that serious allegations, including sexual abuse, were made against the applicant on more than one occasion, yet remained unsubstantiated. 480 [41] Such conduct, if left unchecked, would undermine the child’s right to maintain a meaningful relationship with both parents and is plainly contrary to the child’s welfare. The court cannot condone a situation where one parent seeks to exclude the other through unproven allegations. In these circumstances, 485 judicial intervention is necessary to restore balance and to safeguard the child’s long-term welfare and stability S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg CONCLUSION [42] Accordingly, the Applicant's application is allowed. It is 490 therefore ordered that custody, care, and control, as well as guardianship of the minor child, be granted to the applicant. The respondent shall be accorded reasonable and structured access to the child, with liberty to apply in the event that any variation or clarification becomes necessary. 495 ORDER a) An order for sole custody, care and control, and guardianship of the minor child, Chai Cheng Shin (born 6 April 2022), be granted to the applicant. b) The applicant is granted access for four (4) days each week, 500 commencing on Thursday and ending at 10.00 p.m. on Sunday, after which the child shall be brought to Kampung Rapat Police Station to be handed over to the respondent. The respondent is granted access for three (3) days each week, commencing on Monday ending at 9.00 p.m. on Wednesday, 505 and upon the expiry of that period, the applicant shall collect the child from Kampung Rapat Police Station. c) In respect of public holidays, both parties are granted access on an alternating basis by day throughout the duration of the public holiday, commencing first with the applicant. The access 510 period for public holidays shall be from 10.00 a.m. until 10.00 p.m. This arrangement shall also apply to any ad-hoc public holidays declared by the Government. S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg d) In respect of Chinese New Year celebrations, access shall alternate between the parties every year. In even-numbered 515 years, the child shall be with the applicant at the commencement of the celebrations and thereafter with the respondent. In odd-numbered years, this arrangement shall be reversed. e) In respect of birthdays, the child shall be with the respective 520 mother or father on each parent's own birthday. In respect of the child's birthday, the respondent is granted access from 10.00 a.m. until 10.00 p.m., on the condition that the applicant is permitted to participate in the birthday celebration. f) Each party shall bear the child’s living costs and daily expenses 525 for the duration the child is in their respective care. The medical costs, insurance and educational costs of the child shall be borne jointly by both parties by mutual agreement. g) Both parties are ordered to undergo mental health assessments at the Department of Psychiatry and Mental 530 Health, HRPB, Ipoh, and each party shall individually bear the costs of such assessment. h) In the event the respondent fails to comply with the Order of the court, enforcement proceedings may be instituted. i) The costs of these proceedings shall be borne by each party 535 respectively. j) A further order that the respondent and the applicant, upon exercising access to the child, shall also hand over the child's medical records, MyKid, and birth certificate. S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg [43] For the avoidance of doubt, both parties are strictly directed not 540 to deny, frustrate, or obstruct the access rights granted pursuant to this Order. Each parent shall also conduct themselves in a manner that promotes the welfare, emotional well-being, and best interests of the child, and shall refrain from any conduct that may expose the child to conflict or tension 545 between them. [44] Custody orders here are not intended to punish either parent, but to protect and promote the welfare of the child, which remains the court’s paramount consideration. The court’s role is to ensure that the child is placed in an environment that best 550 supports his emotional, physical, and developmental needs, free from unnecessary conflict and instability. Dated : 10 Jun 2026 555 [MOSES SUSAYAN] JUDGE HIGH COURT IN MALAYA AT IPOH, PERAK 560 S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg Counsel : 565 For the Applicant : Lau Jia Hui (together with Ng Kee Way) Advocates and Solicitors [Messrs Edward Ng & Partners] 570 Kuala Lumpur For the Respondent : Wong Vivien Advocates and Solicitors [Messrs Boey & Khoo] 575 Bukit Mertajam, Pulau Pinang (Notice: This Grounds of Decision is subject to official editorial revision) 580 Headnotes: FAMILY LAW: Custody, care and control – Child of tender years – Application by father for custody, care and control and guardianship – Whether statutory presumption in favour of mother under s 88(3) Law Reform (Marriage and Divorce) Act 1976 rebutted – Prolonged 585 denial of meaningful access to father – Allegations of physical and sexual abuse unsupported by medical, welfare or independent evidence – Welfare report finding no clinical or forensic evidence of abuse and matter classified as “No Further Action” – Respondent charged under s 182 Penal Code for allegedly lodging false report – 590 S/N gWIZpilpi023i9aYbFscVg Whether unilateral exclusion of father contrary to child’s welfare – Whether Respondent’s conduct affected child’s emotional welfare and stability – Paramount consideration of welfare and best interests of child – Whether custody with father and structured access to mother best promoted child’s long-term welfare, stability and 595 meaningful relationship with both parents. 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