The court may at any time by order place a child in the custody of his or her father or his or her mother or, where there are exceptional circumstances making it undesirable that the child be entrusted to either parent, of any other relative of the child or of any association the objects of which include child welfare or to any other suitable person. … ***** S/N 2ldmYReOsEabwZeAroDmdg 11 July 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 8 Guardianship of Infants Act 1961 Section 11 – Matters to be considered The Court or a Judge, in exercising the powers conferred by this Act, shall have regard primarily to the welfare of the infant and shall, where the infant has a parent or parents, consider the wishes of such parent or both of them, as the case may be. [Emphasis added.] [17] The crux of the matter in the Applications revolved around determining what would be in the best interest of the Children’s welfare, that is, whether it was more beneficial for the Defendant to return the Children to the Matrimonial Home, or for her to continue residing in Penang where they had been living since January 2022. [18] At this juncture, it is important to have a comprehension of the meaning of the phrase 'welfare of the child', which was referenced in a plethora of cases including Teh Eng Kim v. Yew Peng Siong [1977] 1 LNS 138; [1977] 1 MLJ 234, Mahabir Prasad v. Mahabir Prasad [1981] CLJ Rep 182; [1982] 1 MLJ 189, Tan Sherry v. Soo Sheng Fatt [2016] 1 LNS 1586, and Tan Erh Ling v. Ong Khong Wooi [2021] 1 LNS 1325. [19] I was also guided by the Federal Court in Sean O'Casey Patterson v Chan Hoong Poh & Ors [2011] 3 CLJ 722, in its reference to the Singapore case of Tan Siew Kee v. Chua Ah Boey [1987] 1 LNS 77, wherein the expression ‘welfare of the child’ was explained by Chan Sek Keong JC (as he then was), in the following passage: S/N 2ldmYReOsEabwZeAroDmdg 11 July 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 9 The expression 'welfare'... is to be taken in its widest sense. It means the general well-being of the child and all aspects of his upbringing, religious, moral as well as physical. His happiness, comfort and security also go to make up his well-being. A loving parent with a stable home is conducive to the attainment of such well-being. It is not to be measured in monetary terms. [Emphasis added.] [20] The Federal Court in Sean O'Casey Patterson v Chan Hoong Poh & Ors, through the opinion of James Foong FCJ, proceeded to explain ‘welfare of the child’ in the following passage: [53] According to Halsbury's Laws of England, 4th edn, reissue (Mackay edition), para 443 the term, "welfare principle" is a set of factors used when "a court determines any question with respect to the upbringing of a child or the administration of a child's property or the application of any income arising from it, the child's welfare must be the court's paramount consideration". In the English Children Act 1989, under the heading ‘welfare of the child’ is a set of factors that must be taken into account when deciding on such cases. These are for example: the wishes of the child; his feelings; his age; his sex and his background and the capabilities of the parties involved. Thus, this term "welfare principle" relates to certain factors to be considered and their priority during deliberation in such cases. [Emphasis added.] [21] In order to arrive at a decision, it is imperative for this Court to consider the concept of ‘welfare of the child’ in its broadest sense, taking into account all relevant factors, and carefully weighing them against one another. Due to the unique circumstances of each case, it is not feasible to provide an exhaustive list of specific considerations. [22] In the specific context of the present case, it was of utmost importance to highlight that the Children had been residing in the Matrimonial S/N 2ldmYReOsEabwZeAroDmdg 11 July 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 10 Home until January 2022, when the Defendant unilaterally decided to relocate them solely due to disputes she had with the Plaintiff. This unilateral action led to the Children’s absence from school, which was evidenced by issuance of a letter of absenteeism by the principal of the school to the Plaintiff. Additionally, the Children were separated from their friends in Kuala Lumpur, as well as their half-sibling, as a consequence of being removed from the Matrimonial Home. [23] In response to the issue of school absenteeism, the Defendant put forth the argument that she had enrolled the Children in a tuition centre in Penang to provide them with additional support. [24] In my view, this contention was unsustainable. Primarily, there was complete absence of evidence to substantiate the Defendant’s claim that the Children were indeed enrolled in a tuition centre. [25] Furthermore, it is imperative to recognise that a tuition centre can never serve as a substitute for a formal educational institution. The significance of attending school cannot be overstated, as it encompasses vital aspects such as academic knowledge, socialisation, personal growth, emotional well-being, exposure to diverse subjects and activities, and even civic education, health and nutrition. While a tuition centre may offer valuable supplementary academic support, it cannot adequately replace the comprehensive education, socialisation opportunities, and well-rounded educational experience that a school provides. S/N 2ldmYReOsEabwZeAroDmdg 11 July 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 11 [26] The Plaintiff contended that separation of the Children from their half-sibling was not in their best interest, and I find myself in agreement with this standpoint, as ‘children do... support one another and give themselves mutual comfort, perhaps more than they can derive from either of their parents’: per Dunn LJ in Adams v. Adams [1984] FLR 768, which was adopted in Sivajothi K Suppiah v. Kunathasan Chelliah [2000] 3 CLJ 175 and Ooi Mei Chein @ Wei Mei Chein v. Micheal Tan Cheng Hai & Anor [2013] 1 LNS 1090. [27] In Sivajothi K Suppiah v. Kunathasan Chelliah, it was stated by Faiza Thamby Chik J, in the following passage: In General The Courts Dislike Separating Children In Bromley's Family Law 7th edn, 1987 by Professor B.M. Bromley and N.V. Lowe at p. 328 it is stated as follows: Keeping the children together. In general, the courts dislike separating children. [Emphasis added.] [28] Therefore, based on careful consideration of the circumstances, I held the view that it was imperative to immediately return the Children to the Matrimonial Home, where they should rightfully be under the care and control of the Plaintiff. It was evident that the Defendant had no justifiable grounds to abruptly remove the Children from an environment to which they were accustomed, solely due to her personal differences with the Plaintiff. S/N 2ldmYReOsEabwZeAroDmdg 11 July 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 12 [29] It is crucial to acknowledge that, in the present situation, the doctrine of tender years, as stipulated in section 88(3) of the Law Reform (Marriage & Divorce) Act, did not apply since the Children are aged 8 and 10 respectively. Hence, there was no automatic presumption that the custody of the Children should be granted to the Defendant based on their age. [30] In OS No 413, the Plaintiff sought sole care and control of the Children but expressed a willingness to share custody. However, after careful consideration, I concluded that it would be in the best interests of the Children to not only grant shared custody, but also shared guardianship to the Parties, for the following reasons. [31] Despite the Defendant unilaterally removing the Children from the Matrimonial Home in Kuala Lumpur, there was no substantial evidence suggesting that she was an unfit parent solely based on this action. [32] It was important to acknowledge that the Parties were undergoing significant marital disputes, leading the Defendant to make the decision to return to her parent’s home in Penang. This decision, in itself, does not inherently render her an unfit parent. [33] The Plaintiff had made specific allegations against the Defendant, such as allowing them to eat in the car, handle dangerous objects like knives, and failing to supervise them during swimming. However, the Defendant had disputed these incidents and explained that the Plaintiff had exaggerated them. The Defendant had also raised concerns about the Plaintiff’s own neglectful actions, which the Plaintiff denied. S/N 2ldmYReOsEabwZeAroDmdg 11 July 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 13 [34] In my view, the Plaintiff had excessively focused on the Defendant’s flaws in an attempt to portray her as an unfit mother, while disregarding any potential shortcomings on his own part. [35] Given the conflicting versions presented by both Parties, I deemed it necessary to set aside their narratives at this stage. It is a well-established legal principle that if one party makes allegations in their affidavits and the party credibly denies those allegations in their own affidavits, the judge must disregard the disputed allegations in the absence of oral evidence or cross-examination. This is based on a plethora of cases such as Tay Bok Choon v. Tahansan Sdn Bhd [1987] CLJ Rep 24; [1987] MLRA 68; [1987] 1 MLJ 433; Gan Koo Kea v. Gan Shiow Lih [2003] 4 MLJ 770; [2003] 6 AMR 459; [2003] 4 CLJ 539, and Diana Clarice Chan Chiing Hwa v. Tiong Chiong Hoo [2002] 1 CLJ 721, [2002] 2 MLJ 97, [2002] 2 AMR 1527. [36] It was of utmost importance to emphasise to the Parties that neither parent holds superiority over the other. The nature of the relationship between a child and his or her father is distinct from that with his or her mother. Consequently, it is essential to the child’s right to establish meaningful bonds with both parents, as it is undeniable that a child requires the presence and involvement of both parents, within the context of our current gender-binary social structure. Each parent has invaluable contributions to offer in a child’s life, and recognising and facilitating their involvement is crucial for the child’s overall well-being. S/N 2ldmYReOsEabwZeAroDmdg 11 July 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 14 [37] According to section 3 (Duties of guardian of person) of the Guardianship of Infants Act, both parents bear equal responsibility for the child’s support, health, and education. In the present case, this legal provision reinforces the correlation between the Parties’ obligations and the Children’s entitlement to foster a bond with both parents. It was also crucial to recognise that even though the doctrine of tender years does not apply in this case due to the Children being above the specified age threshold, they are still young, and the presence of the Defendant in their lives remains significant. [38] As such, whilst sole care and control will revert to the Plaintiff, both Plaintiff and Defendant will have joint guardianship and joint custody of the Children, in the following manner: