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1 DALAM MAHKAMAH TINGGI MALAYA DI SHAH ALAM 1 DALAM NEGERI SELANGOR DARUL EHSAN, MALAYSIA 2 (BAHAGIAN KELUARGA) 3 SAMAN PEMULA NO : BA-24F-217-08/2023 4 5 Dalam Perkara Mengenai Seksyen 6 106(1)(vi) Akta Membaharui 7 Undang-Undang (Perkahwinan & 8 Perceraian) 1976 9 10 ANTARA 11 ELAYNE CHAN SU WERN 12 (NO. K/P : 820805-14-5500) ...PLAINTIF 13 DAN 14 ERIC TAN CHOON POOH 15 (NO. K/P : 800331-04-5357) ...DEFENDAN 16 17 GROUNDS OF JUDGMENT 18 19 Introduction 20 [1] This is an application in Enclosure 15 by the Defendant Husband 21 (Defendant) under Rule 102(1) Divorce and Matrimonial Proceedings 22 Rules 1980, Order 42 rule 13 and Order 92 rule 4 Rules of High Court 23 2012 to set aside the Order of this Court dated 20.11.2023 allowing leave 24 to the Plaintiff Wife (Plaintiff) to exempt the reference of matrimonial 25 difficulties of the Plaintiff and the Defendant to the Conciliatory Body. 26 27 [2] Having carefully considered the arguments advanced by learned 28 counsel for the parties and weighed the applicable legal principles, I 29 dismissed the Defendant’s application with costs. 30 S/N xFwGYvfmUE29ChIyZwrr/w [3] My reasons are as stated below. 1 2 Background Facts 3 [4] The Plaintiff and the Defendant were married on 26.9.2011 and 4 have 2 sons aged 11 and 8 years respectively. 5 6 [5] In the past year the Plaintiff began to receive continuous 7 harassment from a woman named Wee Soo Chin (WSC) who claimed 8 that she is the Defendant’s mistress. She bombarded the Plaintiff with non 9 stop telephone calls and incessant messages causing severe disturbance 10 and harassment to the Plaintiff and the children’s lifes. This woman had 11 even boldly trespassed into the matrimonial property and threatened to kill 12 the Plaintiff and her family if she was ignored or blocked on the phone or 13 social media. As a result of the continuous harassment and emotional 14 abuse the Plaintiff suffered grave emotional distress and trauma resulting 15 in her having to be hospitalized. 16 17 [6] On 2.8.2023 the Plaintiff filed an Originating Summons to apply for 18 exemption to refer the matrimonial difficulties between the parties to a 19 conciliatory body based on Section 106(1)(iv) Law Reform (Marriage and 20 Divorce) Act 1976 citing there are exceptional circumstances which make 21 reference to a conciliatory body impractical. 22 23 [7] The application was duly served on the Defendant by way of 24 substituted service. The Defendant did not respond to the application, 25 neither did he attend Court on the date fixed for hearing. The Court was 26 satisfied that the Defendant although properly served with the application 27 had not put in any appearance nor filed any affidavit in opposition had 28 allowed the said application on 20.11.2023. 29 S/N xFwGYvfmUE29ChIyZwrr/w [8] Subsequently the Plaintiff filed a divorce petition on 28.12.2023 1 under case number BA33-983-12/2023. 2 3 [9] The divorce petition cause papers were served personally on the 4 Defendant on 3.1.2024 (see Affidavit of Personal Service dated 23.1.2024 5 in Encl 8). The Defendant appointed solicitors to act for him. In the 6 Acknowledgement of Receipt in Encl 9 (Akuan Penerimaan) dated 7 15.2.2024 the Defendant in answer to Question 5 agreed for a decree to 8 dissolve the marriage and wished to defend the Divorce Petition. 9 10 [10] Pending the divorce petition, the Plaintiff as the Petitioner in the 11 divorce petition, filed a Notice of Application for Ancillary Relief on 12 20.02.2024 to pray for, inter alia, custody, care and control of the children, 13 maintenance for herself and an injunction. 14 15 [11] The cause papers were served on the Defendant and the Defendant 16 filed an Affidavit-in-Reply on 11.03.2024 to oppose the Plaintiff’s 17 application for ancillary relief in the divorce petition. 18 19 [12] Then on 16.04.2024, the Defendant filed the instant application to 20 set aside the Order of Court dated 20.11.2023 (Enclosure 13) i.e. the 21 order allowing the exemption to refer the matrimonial difficulties of the 22 parties (Exemption Order) on the basis that the Plaintiff had failed to show 23 any special circumstances to justify the application. 24 25 Contentions of the Parties 26 [13] The Defendant claims ignorance in regard to the matrimonial 27 difficulties faced by the Plaintiff. In his Affidavit in Support dated 13.5.2024 28 (Encl 16) he averred that to his knowledge their 12 year marriage was a 29 happy one with both getting along very well. The first time he became 30 S/N xFwGYvfmUE29ChIyZwrr/w aware of any problem was on 9.9.2023 when the Plaintiff packed all his 1 belongings and told him to leave their matrimonial home. She blocked his 2 phone calls and messages as well as all access to social media thereafter. 3 4 [14] The Defendant further contended there was no basis for the Plaintiff 5 to obtain an ex parte Exemption Order against him since there had never 6 been any previous attempts at reconciliation before making the present 7 application. The Defendant was of the opinion that the parties must give 8 the reconciliation body a chance to see if they can help in this regard. 9 10 [15] The Defendant contended that service of the OS on him was 11 irregular and hence the Exemption Order against him was improper and 12 should be set aside. He claimed that he had not been served with the OS 13 and did not receive the Exemption Order. 14 15 [16] The Plaintiff strongly opposed the application citing a number of 16 reasons. In reply to the above contentions the Plaintiff argued that there 17 were exemptional circumstances which rendered the reference to the 18 conciliatory body impracticable as the Plaintiff had suffered severe mental 19 health problems due to the Defendant’s adulterous relationship with the 20 other woman resulting in her hospitalization at one point thus making 21 reconciliation between the both of them highly improbable. 22 23 [17] In negating the Defendant’s assertions, the Plaintiff pointed to the 24 fact that immediate family members on their part had made a number of 25 attempts to reconcile the couple. These family members had played a 26 conciliatory role in attempting to patch up their differences by advising the 27 Defendant to salvage the marriage and stop the adulterous relationship 28 he was carrying on with the other woman. However the Defendant instead 29 S/N xFwGYvfmUE29ChIyZwrr/w of engaging with the family had resisted and argued with them. Therefore 1 it was not true that the parties had not attempted reconciliation. 2 3 [18] The Defendant was lackadaisical in showing any effort to reconcile 4 with the Plaintiff. The Plaintiff complained that the Defendant chose to turn 5 a blind eye and deaf ears to the Plaintiff’s mental health issues and 6 hardship caused by the actions of the other woman. The Defendant had 7 not been emphatic to her plight. Instead he callously brushed her 8 concerns away telling her to just ignore and block the other woman’s 9 phone number. 10 11 [19] The Plaintiff that the Defendant had not shown any sincere or 12 genuine efforts to salvage the marriage. It was bad enough that he ignored 13 her hardship and suffering. He had to rub salt into the wound by turning 14 on her and accusing her of trying to squeeze maintenance money out of 15 him. The Plaintiff contended that this proved that the Defendant’s 16 application to set aside the Exemption order was merely to delay the 17 divorce proceeding and avoid paying interim maintenance to the Plaintiff. 18 19 Decision of the Court 20 [20] It would be in order to take note that the Defendant’s application to 21 set aside the Exemption Order is based on Order 42 Rule 13, Order 92 22 Rule 4 Rules of Court 2012 and Rule 102(1) DMPR 1980. 23 24 [21] Order 42 Rule 13 ROC 2012 specifically reads as follows: 25 26 Setting aside or varying judgment and orders (O. 42, r. 13) 13. 27 Save as otherwise provided in these Rules, where provisions are made 28 in these Rules for the setting aside or varying of any order or judgment, 29 a party intending to set aside or to vary such order or judgment shall 30 make an application to the Court and serve it on the party who has 31 S/N xFwGYvfmUE29ChIyZwrr/w obtained the order or judgment within thirty days after the receipt of 1 the order or judgment by him. 2 3 [22] The Court finds from an examination of the brief timeline of the 4 events and on the specific facts and circumstances surrounding this case 5 clearly support the Plaintiff’s claim that the Defendant’s application is mala 6 fide and more than likely a clever manoeuvre to delay the divorce 7 proceedings. 8 9 [23] For ease of reference a timeline of the events is summarized below: 10 Date Events 03.01.2024 Defendant received the divorce cause papers