Photo of Plaintiff, 1st Defendant and Child with what appears to be a “Happy Birthday” sign on a cake with a modified date of 18.09.2011. 600(T) “P66” [191] I find these photographs and videos show that the Plaintiff had access to and was involved in the Child’s life from her birth until his access to the Child was stopped by the 1st Defendant in December 2013. [192] The 1st Defendant’s admission that the Plaintiff visited her and the Child at the hospital after her birth and that she had called the Plaintiff to help her with the Child when the Child was 2 weeks old, and her testimony below, corroborates the Plaintiff’s assertion that he had access to the child from her birth until the 1st Defendant stopped his access to Child in December 2013. The 1st Defendant’s testimony is reproduced below: By the end of 2013, I told [the Plaintiff that it was not good for [Child C] to be with me when I was seeing him and carrying on our affair. [The Plaintiff] was not taking any steps to build a family with us and I did not think it wise for [Child C] to be exposed any further to [the Plaintiff] or our affair. She was 5 years old and beginning to be more aware of things happening around her. [The Plaintiff] had no issue with that. I continued to see [the Plaintiff] after dropping [Child C] at school. S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA [193] The photographs show that the Plaintiff and the 1st Defendant had an intimate relationship. The photographs also show that the Plaintiff acted as the father figure and the 1st Defendant acted as the mother figure of the Child. They show them celebrating the Child’s 1st birthday together with friends, going on holidays together (to Kuantan in October 2008, to Genting Highlands to celebrate New Year 2009, to Macau and Hong Kong), taking the Child for outings such as going to the zoo, to see a hot air balloon, eating out at restaurants and shopping at shopping centres. These are activities that parents would do with their children. [194] To my mind, any third-party looking at the videos of the Plaintiff, the 1st Defendant and the Child would conclude that they were a family unit, where the Plaintiff is the father and the 1st Defendant is the mother of the Child — the way they interact together and with the Child when she had her hair cut at the barber; the pride in the Plaintiff’s face when the Child was dancing to the Indian music and the ease at which she was interacting with him and dancing all over him when he laying on the sofa; the Child putting the pencil at the back of his shirt when they were eating at the food court; the Child showing the Plaintiff her storybooks and them going through her story books during their dinner in Melaka; and the Plaintiff and the Defendant teasing the Child in one video about the amount of chocolate she was eating and in another of her passing wind; the Child sharing her food with the Plaintiff and the Child helping the Plaintiff put on a hat whilst they waited for the 1st Defendant shopping. [195] For these reasons, I find that the Plaintiff has discharged his burden of proof that on balance of probabilities the Plaintiff did have access to the Child since her birth until December 2013. S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA Did the 1st Defendant lead a double life with the Plaintiff? [196] The 1st Defendant denied that she had led a double life with the Plaintiff. When asked by, she said it was because they do not have a house together and they do not live together. She said that the Plaintiff was just an affair. [197] The dates and times on the metadata/EXIF information of the photographs show several occasions that the Plaintiff would be with the 1st Defendant from morning until night for a few days at a stretch. The dates and times of several of the photographs show the Plaintiff feeding the Child on a bed or a sofa in the morning and them being out at shopping mall or restaurant in the afternoon and them at home in the evening. There are also photos of the Plaintiff sitting in his boxer shorts playing with the Child on the living room floor of the house; and him sitting with the Child on a bed or a sofa in a living room, the 1st Defendant sleeping with the Child on a bed with her breasts partly exposed and her celebrating his birthday at night at the dining table of the house with only a t-shirt on. These photographs show how familiar and comfortable they are with each other. [198] The 1st Defendant said that she would see the Plaintiff when he was not on flight duty and the 2nd Defendant was away on flight duty. This is partly true because the facts show that she had invited the Plaintiff to see her and the Child in the hospital even though the 2nd Defendant was in the country and we know from 1st Defendant’s testimony that the 2nd Defendant only went back to Singapore when the Child was 2 weeks old. [199] The 1st Defendant had testified that she had invited the Plaintiff to her home when the Child was 2 weeks old to help her with the Child. She S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA did not dispute the Plaintiff’s claim that he was a familiar face with the confinement lady and the breast-feeding consultant that came to the house. She only said that it was she who called for a nurse for a post-natal home visit and not him. She said “[the Plaintiff] did not deal with my breast-feeding issues even though I had mentioned it to him and he was with me at that time.” [200] The photograph at exhibit “P31” of the Plaintiff and the 1st Defendant celebrating the Child’s 1st birthday with friends and their family at McDonalds, where the Child’s name on the birthday cake was “C.A.S” i.e., the Child’s surname is the same as Plaintiff’s surname. McDonalds is a public place. The birthday party and the Child’s name on the cake would have conveyed the message to the friends who attended the birthday party that the Plaintiff and the 1st Defendant are proud parents celebrating their child’s 1st birthday and that the Plaintiff is the Child’s father. [201] The 1st Defendant’s colleague, the stewardess, PW4, who was on duty on their flight home from Kuantan had referred to the Child as the Plaintiff and the 1st Defendant’s daughter. She said that she was quite shocked when she saw them. She testified “As I know, [the 1st Defendant] was married to another co-pilot from the [Singapore based airlines], not [the Plaintiff. …. I thought the [the 1st Defendant] had ended her relationship with that [Singapore based airline] co-pilot and started a family with [the Plaintiff]”. [202] The WhatsApp conversation between the Plaintiff and the 1st Defendant shown on pages 16 to 29 of Bundle B3 (marked collectively as exhibit “B3”) shows their conversation included mundane issues such as S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA which backpack to get for the Child, the condition of the Child’s stool, the Child has a high fever, buying a poodle for the Child, the Child’s swimming lessons — all not uncommon topics discussed between parents of children. The messages also show the Plaintiff giving the 1st Defendant his flight roster for time to time. The WhatsApp messages also show that at 8.52am on 21.05.2013, the 1st Defendant sent the Plaintiff a message “Morning ….. happy parents day”. [203] If it was only an affair with the Plaintiff as the 1st Defendant claims, she would be having her sexual relations with the Plaintiff at somewhere neutral like a hotel room. She would not have invited the Plaintiff to stay in her matrimonial home whenever the Plaintiff is in KL and her husband is away. She would also not have involved the Plaintiff in the Child’s life for more than 5 years – as is evident from the photographs, the videos, and the WhatsApp messages. She would also not have wished someone she was just having an affair with “Happy Parents’ Day” or that he was “World’s Most Loving Daddy”. She would not have celebrated the Child’s 1st birthday party with the Plaintiff and his friends at a public place such as McDonalds. And she would not have signed off her Valentine’s Card to him (exhibit “P2”), with the words “Love you, daddy” next to the Child’s name, or make a hand-written scrap book after their Kuantan holiday together (exhibit “P17”). She also would not have asked the Child to call the Plaintiff “D” for Daddy in preparation for the future when she leaves her husband and sets up home with him. The excerpt of 1st Defendant’s testimony on this subject is reproduced below: Plaintiff Counsel 1 (PC1): [1st Defendant], you had admitted that [Child C] calls [the Plaintiff] D, why D? S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA It was a name suggested by [the Plaintiff] himself, to play house with me. PC1: My instructions are not that’s not true, and that D is actually the initial for Daddy, do you agree with me? I would love for [Child C] to call him Daddy, if one day that I can with [the Plaintiff] because I have really thought of leaving my husband of [the Plaintiff], that’s why I asked [the Plaintiff] to give us a home because I comes with the child, whenever I go my child will come with me. PC1: [1st Defendant], you just need to say yes. so the answer is yes, right? D is for Daddy, is that correct? Just answer yes or no. Yes, for in the future. He must be a daddy to [Child C]. [Emphasis added] [204] Furthermore, if it was only an affair between her and the Plaintiff, the 1st Defendant would not have been upset that she was not asked to take a photo with the Plaintiff and his family during his cousin’s wedding. Both the Plaintiff and his mother, PW3, testified that the 1st Defendant had asked why she was not invited to be in the Plaintiff’s family photo at his cousin’s wedding. PW3 said that she told the Plaintiff that the 1st Defendant is not family. During the trial, the Defendants’ counsel cross-examined PW3 at length as to why she did not want to introduce the 1st Defendant to the family at the wedding. This can be seen from the excerpt of the Defendants’ counsel cross-examination of the PW3 reproduced below: Defendants Counsel 2 (DC2): Yes, So Mdm [T], by this time, by that 15th November 2008, you already knew that [the 1st Defendant] had a child, correct? S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA Yes And that was why you told [the 1st Defendant] that you couldn’t introduce her to the family at the wedding? Yes. So isn’t [it] true Mdm [T] that you did not want to accept [the 1st Defendant] or her child? It is just that on that occasion, I just told her that you know I can’t introduce her to the family. And you had you had …….. I wouldn’t know, I wouldn’t know what to say. You had even told your son that [the 1st Defendant] was not part of the family, isn’t that so? When he when he asked me, he told me [the 1st Defendant] asked him why is it that you know, she’s not invited to take photograph, she was not invited to take photograph with the family. I told him that she is not she is not part of the family because it was a family photograph. So you were not accepting of her, correct? It is not so much of accepting, it’s, she’s not like officially a family member or anything, and it’s a family photograph. No, you said you cannot even introduce her to the family. What am I going to introduce her as? So you had problems accepting [the 1st Defendant], wouldn’t you say. I wont want to have somebody’s wife, introduce her as my son’s girlfriend or anything. So Mdm [T] it comes back to the fact that you did not accept [the 1st Defendant], yes or no? PW3” Accept her, may I ask accept her in what way am I supposed to accept her? S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA But your son has brought her to this wedding. So in that role, that somebody that your son has brought, somebody that he had wanted to include in the family photo. He didn’t. Because he actually ask you. He didn’t ask me to include her, he just told me [the 1st Defendant] asked him why she’s not included. And that was after everything has finished. [205] In my view, the aforementioned evidence shows that the 1st Defendant had led a double-life with the Plaintiff vis-à-vis her husband, the 2nd Defendant. It was not just as an affair as the she claims – the 1st Defendant had been playing happy families with the Plaintiff for more than 5 years since the Child was 2 weeks old. From her own testimony, the 1st Defendant said that she had contemplated leaving the 2nd Defendant for the Plaintiff and had asked the Child to refer to the Plaintiff as “D” for “Daddy” in preparation for the time when she does set up home with the Plaintiff. As can be seen from the cross-examination of PW3 by the Defendants’ counsel, the 1st Defendant had expected that she be accepted by the Plaintiff’s mother as a member of his family and that she be included in a photograph with the rest of the Plaintiff’s family. A married woman who is “just having an affair” with a man would not expect the said man’s mother to accept her as a member of the man’s family and to be included in his family photographs. She would also not have instructed her counsel to cross-examine her lover’s mother at length as to why she was not accepted as being part of his family and not invited to be in a photograph with family. S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA Did the Plaintiff provide the 1st Defendant maintenance for Child C until the 1st Defendant closed her bank account at Maybank? [206] The Plaintiff’s case is that he had contributed financially to the Child’s maintenance since she was born until the 1st Defendant closed her back account at Maybank. In paragraph 5.19 of his statement of claim, the Plaintiff pleaded that he paid the 1st Defendant RM1,000.00 per month as maintenance for the Child and occasionally he would pay the 1st Defendant in cash. He pleaded that after his relationship with the 1st Defendant broke down, he increased the monthly maintenance payment to RM3,000.00. He said that the payments stopped when the 1st Defendant closed her bank account in or around August 2014. [207] The Plaintiff’s relevant bank accounts were produced in pages 30 to 256 of Bundle B3 during the trial and were marked as exhibit “P4”. The 1st Defendant’s savings account at Maybank for the years 2010 to 2013 were produced in pages 17 to 32 of Bundle B2 (marked collectively as exhibit “P28”). And her Young Savers Account held jointly with the Child at Standard Chartered Bank were produced in pages 33 and 34 of Bundle B2 (marked collectively as exhibit “P29”). [208] The Plaintiff was unable to show, during the trial, the exact amount of the sums transferred made. Although his bank statements show that transfers were made, they do not show to whose account the said transfers were made. There were also discrepancies between the dates of the transfers and the amounts transferred in his testimony as compared to that in the bank statements. Additionally, payments which he says were made made by cash to the 1st Defendant, were not reflected in the bank statements. S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA [209] The Defendant in their defence deny that the Plaintiff had paid any maintenance for the Child. In paragraph 2.8 of their defence, the Defendants pleaded: “The Plaintiff had never paid maintenance for the Child, the 2nd Defendant throughout bearing all the Child’s expenses and maintaining her since her birth.” [210] Nevertheless, during the trial the 1st Defendant admitted that the Plaintiff did pay RM1,000.00 monthly into her Maybank account, although she said the monies were for her and were not maintenance for the Child. She also admitted that the Plaintiff had paid the monies into her Maybank account until she closed the account in December 2014. The excerpt of her testimony on this subject is reproduced below: Sometime in 2010, to test the level of [the Plaintiff’s] commitment to our relationship, I did ask [the Plaintiff] to give me RM1,000 monthly for my personal spending. I made this request while I was still struggling with my depressions and experiencing uncertainties generally. [The Plaintiff] had not shown any move to be committed to me. ………. When [the Plaintiff] agreed to giving me some money, it gave me some sense of [the Plaintiff] being committed to our relationship. At no time was this money meant for [Child C], [the 2nd Defendant] bearing all of [Child C’s] expenses. This sum was never paid consistently, with various sums paid at different time. [The Plaintiff] had deposited these monies into my Maybank account. I eventually closed my Maybank account in December 2014 [211] The question of whether the Plaintiff had paid monies into the 1st Defendant’s Maybank account falls within the principle underlying the second principle in section 102 of the EA. S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA [212] The 1st Defendant had admitted that the Plaintiff had paid the sum of RM1,000.00 monthly into her bank account at Maybank from sometime in 2010 until she closed her Maybank account in December 2014. However, she positively asserted that the monies paid by the Plaintiff into her Maybank account were for her personal spending and not for Child C. She also said that all the Child’s expenses were borne by the 2nd Defendant. The Defendants had pleaded that the 2nd Defendant had borne all the Child’s expenses and maintained her since birth. [213] Hence, pursuant to section 102 of the EA, the burden is on the Defendants to prove that the monies paid by the Plaintiff into 1st Defendant’s bank account was for 1st Defendant and not the Child and that all the Child’s expenses were borne by the 2nd Defendant. [214] Furthermore, section 103 of the EA sets out the general rule as to where the burden of proof as to a particular fact lies. In this instant case, it is the 1st Defendant who had asserted and wishes this Court to believe the monies paid by the Plaintiff into her account were for her own personal spending and not for the maintenance of the Child and that all the Child’s expenses were borne by the 2nd Defendant. Therefore, section 103 places the burden of proving those facts on the Defendants. [215] Additionally, section 106 of the EA places the burden of proof of this particular fact on the Defendants. Whether the monies paid by Plaintiff into the 1st Defendant’s Maybank account were for her own personal spending and not for the maintenance of Child C is within the 1st Defendant’s knowledge. And the fact whether all the Child’s expenses and maintenance were borne by the 2nd Defendant is also within the S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA Defendants’ knowledge. Therefore, the burden of proving these facts lies with the Defendants. [216] The Defendants did not provide any documentary evidence in Court to prove that the monies paid by the Plaintiff into the 1st Defendant’s bank account at Maybank was for her personal spending and not for the Child’s maintenance. They also did not provide any evidence to prove that all the Child’s expenses and maintenance were all borne by the 2nd Defendant. Accordingly, the Defendants failed to discharge their burden of proof. [217] It follows that the 1st Defendant’s admission that the Plaintiff had paid the sum of RM1,000 monthly into her bank account until her bank account was closed in December 2014, and the Defendants’ failure to discharge their burden of proof under sections 102, 103 and 106 of the EA that the monies were for the 1st Defendant’s spending and not the Child’s maintenance, and that all the Child’s expenses were borne by the 2nd Defendant, means that the Plaintiff had successfully proven that he had paid monies for the maintenance of the Child into the 1st Defendant’s bank account at Maybank since 2010 until she had closed the account in December 2014. Findings of Fact [218] For all the reasons above, upon analysing the parties’ pleadings, the oral testimonies of the witnesses and the documentary evidence produced during the trial, I find that the Plaintiff has discharged his legal burden of proof. He has proven on a balance of probabilities that: S/N ttUrx/Fu30ypvxHcIbJxA