Such allowance shall be payable from the date of such neglect or refusal or from such later date as may be specified in the order. [Emphasis added.] [14] In the present case, it was undeniable that the Applicant’s claim for the amount to be attached was for expenses that were not fixed or periodical, but rather amounts for a host of items including medical expenses, educational expenses, expenses for extra-curricular activities, day care expenses, and premium for insurance policy for the Children from the Respondent, all of which altered from time to time. 5 May 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 7 Whether Respondent bound to pay for expenses based on unilateral decisions made by Applicant [15] To compound the matter, the amount claimed by the Applicant to be attached was for expenses she had incurred for the Children, based on decisions that she had made unilaterally, with no discussion whatsoever with the Respondent. [16] The Order dated 8 December 2020 had clearly stipulated, in clause 1, that guardianship was joint, and that the expenses for the Children’s education were to be borne equally by the parties. Since guardianship was jointly granted, pursuant to section 3 (Duties of Guardian) of the Guardianship of Infants Act 1961, both parents, therefore, have equal responsibilities for the Children's support, health, and education. [17] This would mean that the Respondent is equally responsible for the education of the Children, and should, therefore, have been consulted on any decision made pursuant thereto, especially if such decision would entail expenses. [18] On this point, I drew guidance from the cases of Lim Wee Kiat v Yeow Li Li [2019] MLJU 557, and Karen Young v Ng Tia Ching [2018] 11 MLJ 377, where it was made very clear that expenses incurred pursuant to unilateral decisions made by one parent, cannot be absorbed by the other parent who was not consulted. This was explained by Hayatul Akmal Abdul Aziz J in Lim Wee Kiat v Yeow Li Li, in the following passage: 5 May 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 8 I hold that he is responsible for legitimate expenses on those items that he has incurred for the children and not expenses created and/or incurred by third party/PW for the children unilaterally on her own volition without any agreement from PH and then seek to claim to be reimburse for those said expenses as outstanding maintenance for the said child. [Emphasis added.] [19] Furthermore, in the present case, the Respondent contended that the education expenses that the Applicant had referred to, included expenses for extra-curricular activities and tuition for the Children which did not fall within the ambit of ‘education’ to begin with. [20] I agreed with the Respondent on this contention as extra-curricular activities and tuition are optional and definitely not part of education, that the Respondent was supposed to have equally borne pursuant to the Order. The Applicant obviously took it upon herself to provide these additional activities for the Children, and now demanded, via this Application, for half of the expenses she had incurred. [21] Providing additional classes/ extra-curricular activities for a child is a very personal decision of a parent. Whilst some parents inundate their child with a myriad of activities, as they feel that such activities may boost the self-esteem of the child, and develop his social skills, others adopt a more rounded approach to raising a child, as they take the view that extra-curricular activities are a financial cost, and could 5 May 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 9 overwhelm the child, as well as reduce the child’s homework and family time. The fact of the matter is that this Court is not in a position to micro-manage a child’s upbringing. [22] The Applicant submitted exhibits of WhatsApp messages of her conversation with the Respondent and contended that these messages were proof that she had discussed the decisions she had made for the Children, and that he had consented to them. In my view, this contention was bereft of merit as a perusal of the messages clearly indicated that the Applicant had already made the decisions unilaterally before informing the Respondent, and that there was no evidence of the Respondent consenting to such decisions, as they had already been made well before he was informed. [23] If the Applicant had chosen unilaterally to subscribe to these extra-curricular activities on behalf of the Children, making such decision was her prerogative. However, it would lead to grave injustice for this Court to order the Respondent to bear equally such expenses, especially since these decisions were made unilaterally by the Applicant. Reference on this point was made to the case of Lim Siaw Ying v Wong Seng & Anor [2009] 4 MLJ 409, where it was stated by Abdul Aziz Abd Rahim J in the following passage: It is also in evidence and not in dispute that the two children in this instant attended various activities besides their normal school activities. The two children in this case attended various additional classes like piano classes, tuition classes and swimming classes and self-defence classes. These additional classes are good to have as testified by the petitioner provided 5 May 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 10 the parents can afford it and are able to pay for them. However, in my view they are not absolute necessity to have to develop the children into person of character or a rounded individual. In the circumstances, learned counsel for the first respondent submitted that it would be unfair to penalise the first respondent by ordering him to provide for these various activities of the children when the first respondent is himself struggling to ends meet in his daily life. [Emphasis added.] Whether justice of the case dictates that Application should be allowed [24] In the present case it was undisputed that the decisions regarding the Children’s education and health were made without consulting the Respondent. As such, this Court was compelled to also look into the justice of the case, pursuant to the wording of section 4 of the Married Women and Children (Enforcement of Maintenance) Act where it is clearly stated that ‘the Court may…if the court considers it just so to make’. [25] It must also be borne in mind that an attachment of earnings order is a severe form of enforcement as it involves the Court ordering the Respondent’s employer to make monthly deductions, which in turn would reduce the Respondent’s income. It is also a form of declaration of the Respondent’s financial conundrum which may be embarrassing and damaging to his reputation. Furthermore, I had to note that the Respondent had been regular in making the monthly payment of MYR2,000. 5 May 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 11 [26] As such, looking at the facts holistically, it was my view that it would not be just to make an order for attachment of earnings. Conclusion [27] In the upshot, and based on the aforesaid reasons, and after careful scrutiny and judicious consideration of all the evidence before this Court, including written and oral submissions of both parties, this Application was dismissed with costs. Dated: 5 May 2023 SIGNED …………………………………………. (EVROL MARIETTE PETERS) Judge High Court, Kuala Lumpur Counsel: For the Applicant – Audrey Aw Yong and Tang Joey; Messrs Low & Partners 5 May 2023 ……………………………………………………………………………………………… ……………………………………………………………………………………………… 12 For the Respondent – Ng Kee Way; Messrs Ng Kee Way & Co Cases referred to: ➢ Lim Siaw Ying v Wong Seng & Anor [2009] 4 MLJ 409 ➢ Lim Wee Kiat v Yeow Li Li [2019] MLJU 557 ➢ Karen Young v Ng Tia Ching [2018] 11 MLJ 377 Legislation referred to: ➢ Guardianship of Infants Act 1961 – section 3 ➢ Married Women and Children (Maintenance) Act 1950 – section 3 ➢ Married Women and Children (Enforcement of Maintenance) Act 1968 – sections 3, 4